Rules for an amazing first night.

Pay attention to the following tips for you to
have an amazing night with your date or
partner.
#1 Stay safe. Don’t count on each other to
have protection. You need to bring your own.
In cases where you’re just casually dating,
and you find yourselves in bed together, it’s
time to have the contraceptive talk. There
should always be a condom on hand to avoid
unwanted pregnancies and dreaded STDs. If
you’re already in a long term relationship, it
may also be a good idea to get yourselves
tested before you get frisky.
In addition to sexual safety, you must also
keep your physical safety in mind. If you’re
headed to your date’s place for a bit of fun,
make sure you tell someone you trust where
you’re going and who you’ll be with. It may
seem like something only the most paranoid
people would do, but trust us when we say
it’s better to be safe than sorry.
#2 Set the mood. There are tons of ways you
can set the mood and help you both relax
before getting into the sexy part of the date.
You can play some music you both enjoy, use
a couple of aphrodisiac aromatherapy candles
or even have a glass of wine or two. Plus
points if you have some mood lighting handy
in your place. Just don’t overdo the mood-
setting as you don’t want to make your house
look like a cheap hotel.
If you’ve been planning to have your date
over to your house, it’s also important that
your place is presentable. Get rid of the
obvious clutter and make sure nothing
stinks. If you have a pet at home, it also
helps to clean up the litter box and eliminate
traces of fur on your furniture.
#3 Keep yourself groomed. You don’t need
to get it all waxed off down there. Just a few
snips to keep things clean would do. Aside
from hygiene down there, you should also
take care of hygiene everywhere else. Sex
can be a pretty sweaty activity, so slather on
the deodorant where it’s needed.
For those unexpected first times, one way
you can get your hygiene in check is by
hopping into the shower together. When all
those couples opt for the bed for their first
encounter, you can jazz it up a bit by having
your first time in the shower. Not only are
you both squeaky clean, but you can also get
creative with different positions!
#4 Embrace the awkwardness. You’re not
professional porn stars, so you’re not
expected to be experts at what to do. There
will be awkward moments when you’re
exploring each other’s bodies, particularly if
you’re getting it on in the dark. Tangled
limbs and getting squished are all part of the
first time experience. Don’t let the
awkwardness suck the fun out of what you’re
doing, and instead, learn to laugh it off.
Sex is supposed to be enjoyable, but before
you can smoothly glide from one move to
another, you will make a couple of mistakes
along the way. Don’t think of those moments
as something that would turn your partner
off, because your partner is more likely to
admire your sense of humor when you learn
to laugh at the awkwardness.
#5 Try your best to be as relaxed as
possible. Women oftentimes worry that their
partners think they’re too fat, too flat, too
jiggly or just not that sexy. Men, on the other
hand, are worried that they’ll come too soon
or that they’re not big enough to please a
woman.
To be honest, your little insecurities about
your body may not even be such a big deal to
your partner. In other words, you’re breaking
a sweat for nothing! Find the confidence
within you and own this moment. Don’t let
your insecurities prevent you from having
the best first time sex of your life!
#6 Avoid anything too kinky or extreme. It’s
the first time. You don’t want to scare your
partner off with whips, chains and gags! If
that’s the type of thing you’re into, it’s best
to talk it over before actually whipping your
paraphernalia out. Otherwise, your partner
might jump back into his or her clothes and
run!
Slowly introduce your little fetishes by
talking about it beforehand. You can suggest
it or subtly mention it in your conversations.
“Have you ever tried [insert your kinky
fetish] before?” Then you can check if your
partner would be violently opposed to it or
willing to give it a try.
#7 Be sparing with your best moves. The
excitement of sleeping with someone new
can be so overwhelming, that you want to try
all your best moves at the same time. Not
only will you exhaust yourself, but your
partner might start expecting all of them in
the future. Now THAT’s exhausting!
Instead of doing everything your previous
partners have enjoyed, just do one special
move at a time and get your partner
accustomed to it. Then, during your next
tryst, try a different move. This would add
variety and can keep your partner coming
back for more.
#8 Speak up. Of course, you want to please
your partner, but your partner also wants to
please you. Make it easier on both of you by
being vocal about what you want or don’t
want. Don’t fake pleasure to spare your
partner’s feelings, because your encounters
would be based on the mistaken assumption
that you like what they’re doing.
This is especially true for women who are
serial orgasm fakers. Don’t do it, ladies!
You’re just setting yourself up for
disappointment in future encounters!
Likewise, if you genuinely enjoy something,
make sure your partner knows about it so
that they can do it more often.
#9 After the sex is done, try to act as
normal as possible. Sex isn’t a contract that
instantly puts you in a relationship, so don’t
start calling your partner little pet names.
And don’t start acting cold and distant just to
see how far your partner would go to woo
you. In short, just avoid the silly mind games
and keep it casual. Reserve the “where is this
going” questions for after the sex-fueled
hormones have gone to their normal levels.
#10 Don’t overstay your welcome. There are
tons of techniques that both men and women
use when they want someone out of their
beds after sex. Being told to get out can hurt,
but having your partner hint that you should
go can also sting. Instead, prepare yourself
for the possibility that you won’t be staying
over your partner’s place or come up with an
excuse to leave before you get shooed out.
Having sex with someone doesn't necessarily
give you a ticket to stay over for as long as
you like. Fight the temptation to stake a
claim on the new territory after you’ve slept
with its resident (e.g. wearing his clothes,
putting your stuff in a drawer or helping
yourself to the fridge). Remember, you’re still
a visitor, and you’d need to leave sometime.
Whether you’re looking to keep it casual or
have a serious relationship with someone,
the first time you have sex can make a
pretty big impression. Make it a good one
by keeping these tips in mind.
by EMPEROR_MOSWIZ